Find a Real man

Lately, finding a man has not been easy or they have not been easy to come by. These men have places you can find them. The truth is, as a lady, you do not need to go naked because you need a man.

There are ways you could go about finding your man.
1. Dress to be confortable and confident:
This does not mean going naked. Going nude would make men think you are a call girl. Dress responsibly, wear nice perfume, moderate makeup and nice hair-do to bring out your true beauty, feel confortable and confident.
2. Go out:
There are places these men hang out, shopping malls, movies, bar, beach, sports complex etc. Take yourself out, give yourself a treat and you might just find him.
3. Be approachable:
Always wear a smile and don't be too hard on strangers (guys) he might be HIM.
4. Overcome your past hurt and improve on your flirting skills. Maintain eye contact. Don't over flirt to send the wrong message
When he finally approaches you, smile, lean back and allow him do the talking. Go find your man.

Help!!! My Neighbour wants my marriage ruined

I am a young woman of 23, I got married when I was 18. My mother really wanted me to get married to reduce her burden. She told me a friend of hers was looking for a wife for her son who lived abroad. My mother accepted to marry me off before telling me. I was not happy about the idea because I wanted to go to school.
My mother assured me my husband would send me to school. I accepted to marry a man I had never seen. Things turned out to be going well, my unseen husband to be sent my family money and we lived well. My mother taught me how to be a good wife as I waited for my husband to be. My husband finally came and I got married to a 48 year old man.
We moved to Lagos after our marriage. My husband rented a flat and he was only around for 7 months before going back to Germany. I did not know much about my hubby. I became pregnant, it was a thing of joy and my mother was with me till I put to birth. I gave birth to a baby girl. My husand returned one year after I gave birth, I was not finding my marriage to be fun. My mother encouraged me telling me to hold on for my husband.
My husband travelled again, leaving me and my baby. He promised to take me along when next he returned.
I continued to be a good wife untill a new occupant moved into my compound. He was a very cute and caring guy, my daugther also liked him. He usually came around to check on us, sometimes my daugther and I would visit him in the evening when he comes back from work. Our friendship continued and we took it to the next level. I must confess, I enjoyed my neighbour more than my hubby.  I was so carried away, I did not know how I got pregnant with my neighbour's child.
I told him about the pregnancy and suggested terminating it but my dear neighbour has refused to accept my idea. I do not want my husband to find out about this. How could he suggest I keep his child?

7 ways to make a guy fall in love with you

You can either make a guy fall in love with you or not. Things you docould turn him on or off. Make the guy of your dreams fall in love with you by reading this

1. Optimize your appearance:  Look your best, not over dressed but with clothes that brings your features. Wear light makeup, moderate hair, sweet fragrance and do not forget to smile.
2. Be yourself: If you are a fake he would find out someday. Make him fall in love with the real you
3. Listen: Listen more than talking. Listen to him talk, guys like to be in control. 
4. Laugh a lot: Laugh at his jokes, this makes him feel good.
5. Have a great attitude and be positive.
6. Be sweet: Avoid talking bad about a fellow girl in front of him, its a turn off. No gossips
7. Flirt: Flirting works like magic and guys love to flirt.
   
   
   He will fall head over heels following these tips

Makeup: Pressed or Loose powder?

There are two types of powder: loose and pressed powder. Women wants to know which is preferable. Both are good for makeup and all skin type.

Loose powder is best during makeup, while pressed is best for touchups.

For loose powder,use powder brush to apply powder during makeup. Apply from T-zone and spread out into hairline, ears and chin.

While touchups, use powder puff to dab your pressed powder, press puff on skin. That's a great way to touchup without spoiling your previous makeup.

Eat to increase your Libido

  Every man or woman is    interested in learning methods to enhance their pleasure. Libido is a person's desire for sex or sex drive, a healthy and nutritious diet with plenty of lean protein can impede the flow of blood to the genital region which can boost libido. Some food we eat can increase libido, foods like: bananas, avocados, peaches, nuts, eggs, raw oysters, garlic, mangoes, celery, liver, watermelon, asparagus.  

Watermelon smoothie works like vagra. For effective result with food to increase libido, keep your stress level low and indulge in strength exercises like weight lifting, jogging to increase time of performance.

Tips to put you in the mood: 

1. Remove photos of parents and loved ones from the bedroom (photos which makes you feel like they're staring at you)

2. Use dimmed light and scented candles(scented candles are optional)

3. Wines, chocolates and coffee can trigger your mood. 

How Did I end up as her husband?

  Character is like a book, living with people, everyday opens a new page. I have read my wife's page and I expect something new every single day. All my life I have worked so hard to provide for family. I got married at 45, my first child is just 10 years old. I didn't marry on time, I was busy making all the money in the world.
After making money I decided to get a wife from my village, which I did. She was pretty and 25 years younger than I was. We got married and I took her to the city where I lived, she was the best thing that happened to me then. She bore me a son, I continued to work hard to enable me provide for my family.
Barely 2 years in the city, my wife changed into someone else. All of a sudden, she stopped preparing my meals and doing all the duties of a wife. She only cared about herself and son, she neglected me as her husband. I prepared my own meals, sometimes I would eat where ever I found myself before going home, I even washed my own clothes. All my wife did was go shopping and hanging out with her friends. I wanted more than just being married, there was no friendship in our marriage. I decided to find happiness outside.
This search for happiness made me chased after anything in skirt. I had enough money to spend on women and I did spent on them. My wife would turn the house upside down, threaten fire and brimstone because of my infidelity but she did not change her ways. The most annoying part of it all was she squanders money without knowing where the money came from and totally forgot her background before she married me. I got used to living my life as if she never existed but still provided for my family. I never wanted to think about my wife having an affair  even though I was having more than one affair. I was not enjoying my life like that, at my age I 'm supposed to live with my family happy together instead of chasing women like a 20 year old boy who wants to explore the world.
I do not want to divorce my wife for the sake of our son, all I need is to be a happy man. How do I go about it?

Causes of feminine Odour

 Every woman has her natural smell but some are very offensive. A normal feminine smell is very mild, feminine issues could be very frustrating making one feeling unclean. Feminine odour are caused by:

1. Poor hygiene
2. Pelvic Inflammatory disease
3. Sexual transmitted disease
4. Bacterial vignosis
5. Yeast infection

Every woman needs to take care of herself to avoid offensive odour especially from her vagina. The vagina needs to be washed with clean water and mild soap. Some women use only clean water which is still good for vagina health. Poor hygiene could make the vagina itchy and smelly, this could lead to infection. Avoid douching, douches remove healthy bacteria in the vagina.
 Drink lots of water, keep vagina healthy,clean and happy