Story: True love only existed once in my life

Life has taught me never to love and I will tell you why.They say true love exists, that is true in some cases, it works for some, to some it becomes a disaster, mine was a disaster. Let me tell you a few things about myself, I am a graduate who has been prostituting. This is because I couldn't get a good job that would pay my bills. I only got jobs with little pay so I decided to make it big with men. I lived well and had everything I wanted at my finger tip.
It all started one weekend I had accompanied chief on a weekend vacation, chief was one of my favorite customer. I decided to go swimming without chief and that was where cupid shot me. I met Ejike at the poolside, he was a dark cute looking fellow. We got talking,exchanged numbers and parted ways.
I didn't hear from Ejike till after a month. He called once and went out on date,that one date alone changed my feelings. I was shot by Cupid and  I fell for Ejike. Ejike never knew I was a call girl, I was happy about that and our relationship was good. I felt true love for the first time, no one had shown me so much love in my life.
Ejike and I had plans for the future that we did everything together. Ejike was a  business man, he imported refrigerants and his business was doing well. Ejike never introduced me to any of his family member, but had seen my dad to tell him he would be bringing his people for introduction.
Ejike did not change but only claimed he had problems with his goods and needed some money to sort it out. I helped him out, after all he was my husband to be, he would own everything I own once we get married. Ever since I helped him, his problems became persistent and he kept asking me for money. I gave Ejike everything I had to make his business work. At this time I was begining to stay away from my customers because I would soon be married and did not want to jeopardize this opportunity, I was not getting any younger.
It didn't occur to me that I was the only one preparing for our wedding, Ejike was reluctant. Soon Ejike told me he was not feeling our relationship, he was tired and needed a break. I didn't understand what he meant. He left and did not come back again, that was the last time I saw Ejike. His phones were not reachable, I only received an e-mail he sent me telling me he had left the country in search on greener pastures. He wrote in the e-mail that he had known about my lifestyle and only played along so he could benefit from it all. He called our relationship, I mean what we shared A GAME and would be getting married to his longtime sweetheart in the UK.
How cruel Ejike had this all planned to scam me. I have lost everything I worked for with my body, where do I start form? or Is this God's way of telling me I lived a wrong life? I loved Ejike with all my heart, I do not know where to begin my life now.

New Artist!!!

Music

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Story: I Betrayed the one I once called love

All my life I have grown to love my fiance,Ikenna. We have known each other for 7 years, and he proposed to me on my 26th birthday. I never thought I would gradually develop feelings for someone else or is this what closeness to the opposite sex does?

I have worked with Joel for 18 months, he encouraged me to work hard to become a better woman. We became close friends that I even introduced him to Ikenna.
Ikenna never had problems regarding my friendship with Joel, he trusted me with his heart because I had earned the trust after these years of knowing him. Ikenna felt I was in safe hands with Joel because he already had a serious relationship and we all talked about it during our group dates. I had met the girl in question on two occassions.
My relationship with Joel grew even closer, I liked his personality and began to feel jealous when I hear him talk on phone with his girlfriend. I compared my phone conversations with Ikenna to Joel, Joel was cool. I opened up to Joel about everything going on with my relationship and he advised me on how to handle issues.
Soon my discussion with Joel grew to an advanced level, we discussed how we made love to our partners. I began to imagine how good Joel would be. I was getting crazy about Joel, not because I was in love with him but I wanted to explore what he had told me about sexual pleasure.
I didn't stop comparing Ikenna to Joel that it made me have issues in my relationship. I still went to the same Joel to tell him everything. Joel was amazed and consoled me that I could have him if I wanted to, it didn't stop there, we made love in his office. I felt guilty but could not stop what I had already started, Joel was good at it.
Ikenna did notice changes in my behavior but I made up excuses that I was having problems at the office. He tried to make me happy whenever I came around him but I was only interested in my adventure. Fortunately for me Ikenna told me he would be travelling for a two months, his company had sent him to do a course. I was happy because it would give me time for my adventure, I had planned to end it all with Joel before his return.
My little adventure got to its peak as  soon as Ikenna left town, I spent most nights at Joel's place, it was good fun and crazy too. Nemesis decided to catch up with me a month after Ikenna left town, I became pregnant with Joel's child, I got confused as this was the fruit of my little adventure. I have only known Joel for 18 months, Ikenna 7 years. I loved Ikenna more but loved Joel's  bedroom skills. Joel was mad when he found out and suggested I get rid of the pregnancy. How could I have done such again? I have terminated 5 pregnancies for Ikenna in the past and the doctor had warned me against it if another one occured.
Joel and I became enemies when I told him I couldn't do anything about it, now am stuck here with his child. I thought I was exploring a new world with king of the bedroom. How do I explain this to Ikenna on his arrival that am with Joel's child? I betrayed his love and trust.

Cheating? Find out

8 Signs your partner is cheating

In most relationships either one of the persons involved gets to cheat. It is difficult to find a perfect relationship without flaws, therefore you need to prepare yourself by getting the knowledge to protect yourself when it happens.Note, not only guys cheat but the ladies too *winks* it's vice versa.You can spot if your partner is cheating with the following signs:

1. Change in your sex life
2. If they spend much time on their phones, tabs, laptops chatting without giving you attention the way they use to.
3. Not taking phone calls in your presence: having to run to another room to take a call and deleting the caller ID.
4. Always wanting to hangout with friends when he/she ought to spend time with you.
5. Always making up excuses with work to avoid being with you.
6. Finding faults in little things you do.
7. Getting upset when you ask where they have been.
8. Change in communication.

Just because your partner shows these signs does not mean they could be cheating on you. Sit your partner down and talk things over, do not assume they are cheating. Make your relationship work and avoid heartbreak, stay faithful.

Secret for healthy hair

Hair care

The hair is the beauty of every woman but not all hair is cared for. Most ladies only care for hair extensions leaving their natural to suffer while some only wash hair before fixing hair extensions and this makes the scalp dry resulting itching and dandruff.Your hair can be healthy even with the hair extensions with these steps.

1. Wash hair every two weeks.
2. Use shampoo with Sulphur (for people with dry scalp)
3. Apply hair cream containing sulphur, this help in the reduction of dandruff and itching.
4. Blow dry hair after application of hair cream into the scalp. This helps hair to feel soft and happy.
5. Learn the habit of steaming your hair. 

Other hair treatments can be applied to hair to boost hair growth and prevent hair loss.

Story: I ruined his life

"I caused it all"

I have lived with my boyfriend  for 3 years. Please don't judge this because anyone could be in my position. 

I lost my parents  when I was just 16, I was the only child of my parents. My uncles took everything my parents had so I moved in with my mother's younger sister. She was not the best aunty, she treated me with so much hate as well as her family despised me. I was in torture through out my stay at her place.

I lived with my aunt till I graduated from the university. Staying at home without a job became hell for me till I met Frank, my boyfriend. We dated for 8 months before he asked me to move in with him to avoid the torture from my aunt. It was an offer I could not resist because he had told me we would be getting married soon.

I moved into his place and we lived together. What more could I have asked for? Frank's business was booming and flourishing as ever. I loved Frank with all my heart and stood by him always. Two years after I moved into Frank's house, he claimed his business was not going well and said that would delay our marriage. 

I doubted the news about his business because we were living well. He still spent money the way he usually did. I finally got a job that got me pay to make savings when I noticed the change in Frank's behaviour. 

I knew Frank had something up his sleeves. He started keeping late nights and became a total stranger. Little things got him angry, Frank had changed. I was begining to get desperate about getting married because I had just turned 28. I wanted him to propose and to hasten the marriage so I lied to Frank that I was pregnant.

Frank's reaction to the news was horrible. He asked me to terminate the pregnancy as soon as possible telling me business has not been going well with him. He yelled at me asking how could I have allowed such to happen. Thank God the pregnancy was a fake to test him. 

Later that same night, Frank woke me up to tell me the truth that he could not marry me in his life. He asked me to leave his house that he had someone he would be getting to married to very soon and gave me two days to leave.

I confided in a friend and colleague, she asked me to move in with her which I did. I could not bear the heartbreak and I needed to give Frank a payback. My friend decided to help me seek revenge by taking me a to native doctor who told me he would deal with Frank. He requested for Frank's underwear which I was able to provide because I still had Frank's keys with me. 

A week after I had given the native doctor Frank's underwear, I heard Frank was having problems that he sold his car. I left town on official duty for two months and that helped me forget Frank, that was where I met the man that proposed to me. I totally forgot Frank when I returned because I will soon be married and I was happy. 

I finally got married but found out Frank had indeed become useless to the society. He was like a mad man in filty clothes. This was all my fault, I ruined his life. I went to the native doctor who did it to reverse it but could not find him. How can I be happy knowing I ruined the life of the man I once loved? I have known no peace since I found out about Frank...

Get Soft Lips

Exfoliate Lips for suppleness

Exfoliation is the removal of dead cells and this can be done even on the lips. To get soft lips exfoliation has to be done. When dead cells remain on the lips, it becomes rough and scaly like flakes. There are different methods used to exfoliate lips to get the same result.

Method 

1. Apply vaseline on the lips.
2. Use a toothbrush to brush lips in circular motion. 
3. Brush lips not too hard for a minute and wipe off vaseline with a damp towel.
4. Apply lip balm on the lips.

Or

when brushing your teeth, brush lips with toothbrush in circular motion. After brushing clean lips with a damp towel for 60 seconds.

Or

Use Sugar and Honey.

1. Mix a teaspoon of honey with granulated sugar.
2. Apply mixture on lips 
3. Use your middle finger to rub mixture in circular motion for 60 seconds.
4. Clean lips with damp towel.
5. Apply lip balm on lips.

Use these methods for soft kissable lips...stay beautiful

New Artist

Upcoming Artist

Hey pals, Kindly download and listen to T3DD's new single. T3DD is an upcoming artist doing what he loves best (music) in the South-west. 

http://kasimp3.co.za/T3DD-Emine_%5B79206%5D.mp3

Story: Help!!! Crazy in Love with my Cousin

Help!!!

It all started during Christmas when my cousin came visiting from Abuja. I have only heard about her but never saw her since my growing up. It was time for me to see her for the first time and get to know her. 

My family and I all prepared to welcome and make her comfortable when she arrived. My mum could not stop saying what a beauty Adele was. I was in my room when I heard my family all cheering and making merry and I heard my mum screaming Adele's name, I knew the almighty cousin had arrived.

I came out of my room to welcome her when all the excitement had gone down. Omg!!! Adele was a goddess, she was a true beauty. I hugged her and introduced myself to her as I showed her to her room. 

Adele and I became so close that we started doing things together. She became my best friend and I had wished she was not my cousin because she had all the qualities I wanted in a woman. It all started when I ran into her naked in my bedroom. I was wondering what she was doing in my bedroom, she claimed my younger brothers where in her room so she decided to dress up in my room.

After that incident, I could not get Adele off my mind I was loosing it. I thought about Adele even when am having good time with my girlfriend, I fantasized about Adele. My fantasy became a reality the night Adele slept in my room after seeing a late night movie together. We had sex over and over again. I felt guilty for commiting incest but I loved Adele and each time she came around I could not resist her.
I started avoiding my girlfriend to stick with Adele. Adele told me she didn't care even if we were cousins. She snuck into my room at night for us to have our usual adventure. Now I am crazy in love with her but worried about my mother's feelings when she finds out about this. I keep running back to Adele even if I knew it was not right. I need help right now because am loosing it, I don't know if Adele has charmed me.

Beauty tips for natural long eyelashes

Do you want to stop wearing mascara that makes your eyelashes look longer only for a while? or wear mascara with your eyelashes  looking longer? Am sure we ladies would still want to look pretty without our makeup on which includes having long natural eyelashes.The answer to that is here.

Things you'll need:

1. Vaseline
2. Q-tips (cotton buds)

           

What to do:

Use Q-tips to apply vaseline on eyelashes from the root. Apply only at night and wash off in the morning. Watch out for best result after 3 weeks...stay beautiful

  

Private lesson = Private relationship 

  Dear readers, it is yet another story for you, kindly read and leave a comment...

" My name is James, and I was a teacher. I returned back to my village after my youth service to visit with my uncle who retired and resided there. I only planned to stay for sometime while I searched for a good job online. While I waited to get my dream job, I decided to take a teaching job to fetch me some money. I taught in a secondary school not too far from my house. The students loved me, especially a particular student called Mary. Mary was tall and dark in complexion, she had the body of a model. I liked her but thought she was too young for me even when she kept coming close to me. She asked me to teach her maths when her grade dropped. I started teaching her mathematics, I could not say no because I wanted her even close to me. We stayed in school for extra lessons, our private lesson finally became private relationship. My conscience pricked me because Mary was just 17 years old but looked more like a 22 year old. I was taking advantage of this poor girl, but could not end the sweet taboo.

I finally ran into luck and got a job in Delta state in an oil company I decided to leave my village immediately, how bad I didn't even tell Mary. 

7 years later when I decided to settle down, I met a pretty girl and started seeing her. I knew her as Jane and there was something about her I could not comprehend. I loved her with all my heart, we dated for a year. I wanted her around me always so I proposed to her,we celebrated and she told me she had a suprise for me. I was invited by Jane to her elder sister's house to break the news of our engagement. That faithful evening, I followed her there thinking she wanted to break the engagement news to her sister. She asked me to sit, offered me a drink and called out "James" a boy of about 6-7 years ran into the sitting room "yes mummy, good evening uncle". I was suprised "you have a son?" I asked with my eyes and mouth wide open, "Yes! My son, your son, our son. I named him after you. My name is Maryjane Obika, friends called me Mary Obika, your little sweetheart 7 years ago" I was suprised, my Mary was now so pretty."You got me pregnant and disappeared, I only wanted you to meet your son. Am sorry I can't marry you" she cried. I immediately begged her for forgiveness, Mary told me she would be living Nigeria for UK to join her fiancee. She never picked my calls and I was told she had travelled with my son. How do I get in touch with my son and make Mary forgive me? I have not been myself with the thought that my son calls another man Daddy. 

Appreciation

To my Esteemed Readers

Dear readers,

Thank you for visiting my blog...your comments, emails you send to me I really appreciate you all. You all have shown me lots of love, this blog would not have been in existence without you... I appreciate and love y'all.

Angela

Healthy fats

Avocado for beautiful living

   Avocado also known as alligator pear has high calories but the fats are healthy monounsaturated fats. It could be eaten with salads or sandwiches. Eating Avocado has different benefits which are stated below:

1. For healthy brain and heart
2. Reduction of high blood pressure
3. Prevents poor vision
4. Protection against postrate and breast cancer
5. Reduces inflammation in the stomach 

Avocado is recommended for pregnant women for the development of the brain and vital organs of the fuetus.

Get some Avocados and enjoy them...

Secrets for you...

 Untold secret of mine

   Dear Angela, I am a regular reader of your blog, keep up the good work. I want to share my untold secret to your readers. Please publish my story...
I got married in December 2008 to my boss at the office and resigned to be a housewife. We lived happily the first year, the second year became hell after my mother-in-law visited. She was a good woman but disturbed me about having kids " Jules, whats are you waiting for? Isn't it time you show us the woman in you by having kids?" my mother-in-law told me after having dinner in front of my husband. My husband was suprised and defended me " mummy, God's time is the best, besides it's barely two years we got married" my husband replied. "One year, two, even ten years I don't care. Wait till you start having grey hairs, your mates have two-three kids, some even four" she walked out of the room. I stood across the table without saying a word when I saw the reaction on my husbands face, only tears ran down my cheek. After that faithful day, my husband became a total stranger in our home. He kept late nights and started drinking. In 2011, things became worse and unbearable. I knew the only way to bring back that happiness was getting pregnant, I decided to end my nightmare. I hooked up with my ex who was already married too, we saw each other for a couple of months till I noticed I was pregnant. Of course it was not for my husband, the pregnancy brought back my husband. He became the best husband in the world, my ex on the other hand was not aware of my pregnancy. I broke up with him to face my marriage as I enjoyed my marriage like never. I gave birth to a baby girl which my husband adored and since then, we have lived happily together as a family without anyone knowing my little secret.

Health

Cucumber Benefits

   Cucumber contains many vitamins and minerals. It is regarded as a healthy food because it is low in calories and fats. Cucumber has its benefits to us, keeping us healthy, it is a very good choice for snacking.

Benefits includes:

1. Skin care: Cucumber has high water content, minerals and vitamins which is very good for the skin. Cucumber is very good for facial skin.
2. Killing of bad breath: Cucumber kills the bacteria that causes bad breath in the mouth with the help of photochemicals present in it.
3. Nail care: The splitting of nails on thetoes and hands is prevented with cucumber due to the high content of silica present in it.
4. For weight loss: Cucumber has low calories very high water content which makes it ideal for weight loss.
5. Hair growth: Regular in take of cucumber promotes hair growth due to the presence of sulphur and silicon in it.
6. Digestion: The dietry fibre and water content in cucumber aids digestion and digestive disorders such as heartburn, gastritis. 

Tips: when purchasing cucumber, do not purchase yellow or matured cucumber. Cucumber that is dark green and firm are best for consumption...stay healthy